How to Create the Backyard Wedding of Your Dreams
There’s something deeply special about getting married in a backyard. It’s intimate, personal, and filled with meaning in a way that traditional venues can’t always replicate. Whether it’s your family home, a childhood property, or a space that simply feels like yours, backyard weddings allow couples to create a celebration that’s entirely their own.
That said, planning a backyard wedding comes with its own unique considerations. From logistics and layout to guest experience and flow, a little extra intention goes a long way. Below are a few tips to help you plan a backyard wedding that feels effortless, thoughtful, and beautifully you.
Think Beyond the Space You See
When planning a backyard wedding, it’s helpful to think of the space not just as it exists day-to-day, but as a blank canvas. Where will guests arrive? Where does the ceremony naturally want to live? How will people move from one moment to the next?
Mapping out the flow early helps ensure the day feels natural and unrushed. Sometimes this means reimagining corners of the property or bringing in elements like tents, lighting, or lounge areas to define each part of the experience.
2. Prioritize Guest Comfort
Because backyard weddings are often more relaxed by nature, guest comfort becomes even more important. Consider shade on warm days, heaters or blankets for cooler evenings, and plenty of seating for guests to settle into the celebration.
Thoughtful touches — water stations, comfortable lounge furniture, clear signage, or even a welcome drink — go a long way in making guests feel cared for and at ease.
3. Rentals and Logistics Matter More Than You Think
Unlike traditional venues, backyards don’t come with built-in infrastructure. Rentals are often a significant part of the planning process, from restrooms and power to tables, chairs, and lighting.
Working with experienced vendors (and a coordinator, if possible) can help ensure nothing is overlooked. When done well, these behind-the-scenes elements blend seamlessly into the design, allowing the day to feel elevated while still relaxed.
4. Embrace the Personal Details
One of the greatest strengths of a backyard wedding is how personal it can feel. This is the perfect setting to incorporate family heirlooms, handwritten signage, meaningful florals, or details that reflect your story.
These personal touches not only enhance the guest experience but also add depth and emotion to your wedding photos — moments and details that feel true to you and timeless years down the road.
5. Build in Time and Space to Be Present
Backyard weddings tend to move at a gentler pace, which is one of their greatest gifts. Build in breathing room to be present with your people, to step away for a quiet moment together, and to truly soak in the day.
Some of the most meaningful photographs happen in these unscripted moments… laughter with friends, a shared glance, the way the light falls as the evening settles in.
At its best, a backyard wedding feels warm, intentional, and deeply connected; a celebration rooted in place and people. With thoughtful planning and a focus on experience, these celebrations can be just as refined and unforgettable as any traditional venue.
If you’re planning a backyard wedding and dreaming of imagery that feels natural, emotive, and true to your story, it’s an honor to document days like these.
Vendor Credits
Couple: Zoe & Jay
Photography: Jen Jones Weddings (@jenjonesweddings)
Planning: Totem Events (@totemweddingsandevents)
Flowers: Paige Clarke (@flower.spells.co)
DJ: Paradox Productions (@paradox_productions)
HMU: Anny Chow Bridal (@annychowbridal)
Catering: Willaby's (@willabyscatering)
Lighting: Green Light Creative (@greenlightpdx)
Dessert: Lux Sucre Desserts (@luxsucredesserts)
Furniture Rentals: Arden Event Collective (@ardeneventcollective)
Furniture Rentals: Lily & Cane (@lilyandcane)
Cake: Next Dimension Bakery (@nextdimensionbakery)
Toilets: Royal Restrooms (@royalrestroomsoregon)
Glamping Tent: Pitch It Glamping (@pitchitglampingllc)
Videographer: MRC Multimedia (@mrcmulti.me)
